Chris, I stand in the utmost ADMIRATION for the way in which you have handled this sorry affair.
It has taken you a LOT of time, energy and patience.
Your attention to detail in your efforts to provide justice are a lesson to us all -- members and staff alike.
And your intentions were of the best type.
A crying shame the major protagonist gave you NO credit -- something along the lines of "Thank you Chris for trying to help me sort this out."
It has taken me a while to realize that some folk that we encounter are best described as 'psychic vampires'.
They leave you drained because they don't know when enough is enough.
On and on and on they merrily go, ad nauseum.
Having sucked you dry and having recharged themselves on your depleted energy, they waltz off into the sunset, re-energised for their next drama.
And others are best described as 'barrack room lawyers'. Ex-forces members will know exactly what I mean.
I think it's time to firmly bring this issue to a close.
You've done more than enough...
Take more time now for your family and work.
I'm locking this thread as it has outlived its original purpose.