Merry Christmas

Do you want me to stop by or not? 

If you do, the  deal is---hold those stale cookies, the Cuban Sandwich with jalapeños like I said! 

Merry Christmas and yes, I am the sleigh pilot!

You okay?  You don't even stop by and say hi any longer......well, Hi!

just in case:


"Hey Relax, You don't get it. Now that's just a disagreement with regards to your responses.


Here is what happens in the real world. A person that does not have NPD hears that a certain item of interest in a discussion with others is disputed with a plausible argument filled with a compelling argument. The normal person considers the argument and contributes more to the debate in the hopes of influencing agreement. The NPD person sees the disagreement of opinion as a personal criticism and a threat to their understanding of the world around them. It is because of this fear that they will be discovered, for not understanding the world they live in, that they expose themselves as vulnerable. So they become a self fulfilling action based reactionary.


Now these off based, defensive remarks, reveal the weakness that the NPD person has gone off on a tangent of defensiveness  and swerved away from the commonality of civil debate. It has nothing to do with boasting, pride, arrogance, and abuses commonly associated with Narcissism. It has everything to do with controlling others so that the weaknesses that are almost exposed are forced to be done away with. It's a fake reality and a monumental waste of time. It's all about being afraid of being discovered because the person with the problem is clueless with regards of how to solving it. All they know is that controlling others is the only thing they know that works for them. They use guilt trips and threat of anger on the suckers that they manipulate. The only people that they have a use for are the people that they can manipulate. Those are their supply depot.


When I disagree with you, I don't mean a personal attack. I don't mean to expose that fake life you waste your time feeding. I just mean that past spins can reveal characteristics that can be exploited.
"

Hallelujah! 

I just got this PM from Alrelax:

Quoteremember gizo---you promised  (PROMISED TO ALL) to quit gambling!!!!!!!!!!!

Do you really want to go there, living in a glass house and all that? You are your own favorite fan. You love the sound of your verbose opus of blind aggrandizement.


You've gone from people here serving you as primary narcissistic supply, to secondary narcissistic supply, and now beyond.

QuoteQuestion:How does the narcissist treat his former Sources of Narcissistic Supply? Does he regard them as enemies?
Answer:
The narcissist seeks out his old Sources of Narcissistic Supply when he has absolutely no other NS Sources at his disposal. Narcissists frantically try to recycle their erstwhile and wasted sources in such a situation. But the narcissist would not do even that had he not felt that he could still successfully extract a modicum of NS from the old source (even to attack the narcissist is to recognize his existence and to attend to him!!!).
Contacting a discarded source of supply (known as "hovering" or "re-acquisition") requires its re-idealization. When he dumped and abandoned the old source, the narcissist devalued it: he convinced himself that the defunct source was low-quality, inferior, deficient, defective, hostile, or otherwise "not such a big loss." Now, the narcissist has to recant this appraisal and re-idealize the source without admitting to having been mistaken. To preserve his grandiosity and sense of omniscience, the narcissist comes up with a narrative that accommodates both the devaluing content and the re-idealized image of the source.
Example:
Devaluation: I am highly intelligent and can't maintain a relationship with a stupid person.

Ref: http://samvak.tripod.com/faq76.html

Quote from: alrelax on June 21, 2017, 01:33:12 PMAt the request of another board member, Gizmotron, he has pleaded with me to get off the board and remove my posts.  He claims I have degraded this board and chased people away.  (By the way, you might want to ask him about his relationships with other people's money as well and how well he handled being responsible, productive and non-narcissistic, LOL. So, the voting is now open!  If you desire me to get off the board and remove my posts, no problem--vote.  Thanks!

See how the mind of an NPD works. He actually sees things that are not there. When did I ever say that he chased people away?


I told that person that I would divulge everything openly. That is exactly why I did divulge my issues. I kept his name out of it so that he would not be hounded by anyone because of me. It's real interesting how Glen has discovered it. I know I didn't say anything. Are you going to blab his name Glen?


This is how life works Glen. You make your choices and you live with them. If I fail, at least I will not have tried to deceive people in the process. So, why today have you decided to attack me. Are your supplies running low? I know what you are afraid to look at. It's just too bad that your attacks don't have any effect on me. I know what drives you crazy. All I can do is feel sorry for you.

The abuse you are capable of is so self inflicted that you really might want to consider professional help.

Okay Gizz, I love you too!

Just remember, I am not the one about the brain juice, chimps and clinical related infatuation with gambling decisions. 

Quotebrain juice, chimps and clinical related infatuation

You are full of it!

Hey Giz, next time around ask Santa to build you a new chimney...if you get my drift 

Quote from: Gizmotron on June 21, 2017, 01:49:11 PM

See how the mind of an NPD works. He actually sees things that are not there. When did I ever say that he chased people away?


I told that person that I would divulge everything openly. That is exactly why I did divulge my issues. I kept his name out of it so that he would not be hounded by anyone because of me. It's real interesting how Glen has discovered it. I know I didn't say anything. Are you going to blab his name Glen?


This is how life works Glen. You make your choices and you live with them. If I fail, at least I will not have tried to deceive people in the process. So, why today have you decided to attack me. Are your supplies running low? I know what you are afraid to look at. It's just too bad that your attacks don't have any effect on me. I know what drives you crazy. All I can do is feel sorry for you.

The abuse you are capable of is so self inflicted that you really might want to consider professional help.

thanks mark and I have to find a great article by mark ellsworth B-------, will post shortly!

Quote from: alrelax on June 24, 2017, 04:59:20 AM

thanks mark and I have to find a great article by mark ellsworth B-------, will post shortly!

pretty good article it's pretty long about this guy that was discovering the roulette Holy Grail and he was there for about 7 hours when it came to him and he partnered up with another guy down at the Garden restaurant and there was some funding and there was some Bank wires and it was all sorts of promises made it's a pretty good little novel if you want I can try to find it today real quick but I got busy doing other things as why I didn't post it do you really want it post it this quick

I've got your tome too Glen. Do you want that published? Remember that PDF of your dreams? How do you think I figured out that you are a control freak? It was your PM's and emails. You did all this.


BTW, I have no partner, ("and he partnered up with another guy down at the Garden restaurant ").


Not only is that a lie, you are suggesting a conspiracy to commit fraud. Are you actually attempting to make a false accusation here? You had better back that up. I guess it's not cyber-stalking if the mystery man gave you my private emails. But when you fabricate an accusation of a crime you open yourself to investigation. Just how rich are you?

Quote from: Gizmotron on June 24, 2017, 01:10:26 PM
I've got your tome too Glen. Do you want that published? Remember that PDF of your dreams? How do you think I figured out that you are a control freak? It was your PM's and emails. You did all this.


BTW, I have no partner, ("and he partnered up with another guy down at the Garden restaurant ").


Not only is that a lie, you are suggesting a conspiracy to commit fraud. Are you actually attempting to make a false accusation here? You had better back that up. I guess it's not cyber-stalking if the mystery man gave you my private emails. But when you fabricate an accusation of a crime you open yourself to investigation. Just how rich are you?

Mark, i said it was a story, two guys talking at a casino, a story.  What you did with another on this board is your business, his business and I might (just, might) be privy to the details (7 hours), but Mark, i mentioned a story with the owner of The Garden Restaurant.  Whatever you want to interpret that as about is okay.

Quote from: alrelax on June 24, 2017, 10:04:05 PM
Mark, i said it was a story, two guys talking at a casino, a story.  What you did with another on this board is your business, his and i might (might) be privy to the details (7 hours), but Mark, i mentioned a story with the owner of The Garden Restaurant.  Whatever you want to interpret that as ro for is okay.

I'm done playing your games. Get you kicks from somewhere else.