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Started by Gizmotron, December 19, 2016, 09:02:35 PM
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Quoteremember gizo---you promised (PROMISED TO ALL) to quit gambling!!!!!!!!!!!
QuoteQuestion:How does the narcissist treat his former Sources of Narcissistic Supply? Does he regard them as enemies?Answer:The narcissist seeks out his old Sources of Narcissistic Supply when he has absolutely no other NS Sources at his disposal. Narcissists frantically try to recycle their erstwhile and wasted sources in such a situation. But the narcissist would not do even that had he not felt that he could still successfully extract a modicum of NS from the old source (even to attack the narcissist is to recognize his existence and to attend to him!!!).Contacting a discarded source of supply (known as "hovering" or "re-acquisition") requires its re-idealization. When he dumped and abandoned the old source, the narcissist devalued it: he convinced himself that the defunct source was low-quality, inferior, deficient, defective, hostile, or otherwise "not such a big loss." Now, the narcissist has to recant this appraisal and re-idealize the source without admitting to having been mistaken. To preserve his grandiosity and sense of omniscience, the narcissist comes up with a narrative that accommodates both the devaluing content and the re-idealized image of the source.Example:Devaluation: I am highly intelligent and can't maintain a relationship with a stupid person.
Quote from: alrelax on June 21, 2017, 01:33:12 PMAt the request of another board member, Gizmotron, he has pleaded with me to get off the board and remove my posts. He claims I have degraded this board and chased people away. (By the way, you might want to ask him about his relationships with other people's money as well and how well he handled being responsible, productive and non-narcissistic, LOL. So, the voting is now open! If you desire me to get off the board and remove my posts, no problem--vote. Thanks!
Quotebrain juice, chimps and clinical related infatuation
Quote from: Gizmotron on June 21, 2017, 01:49:11 PMSee how the mind of an NPD works. He actually sees things that are not there. When did I ever say that he chased people away?I told that person that I would divulge everything openly. That is exactly why I did divulge my issues. I kept his name out of it so that he would not be hounded by anyone because of me. It's real interesting how Glen has discovered it. I know I didn't say anything. Are you going to blab his name Glen? This is how life works Glen. You make your choices and you live with them. If I fail, at least I will not have tried to deceive people in the process. So, why today have you decided to attack me. Are your supplies running low? I know what you are afraid to look at. It's just too bad that your attacks don't have any effect on me. I know what drives you crazy. All I can do is feel sorry for you.The abuse you are capable of is so self inflicted that you really might want to consider professional help.
Quote from: alrelax on June 24, 2017, 04:59:20 AMthanks mark and I have to find a great article by mark ellsworth B-------, will post shortly!
Quote from: Gizmotron on June 24, 2017, 01:10:26 PMI've got your tome too Glen. Do you want that published? Remember that PDF of your dreams? How do you think I figured out that you are a control freak? It was your PM's and emails. You did all this.BTW, I have no partner, ("and he partnered up with another guy down at the Garden restaurant "). Not only is that a lie, you are suggesting a conspiracy to commit fraud. Are you actually attempting to make a false accusation here? You had better back that up. I guess it's not cyber-stalking if the mystery man gave you my private emails. But when you fabricate an accusation of a crime you open yourself to investigation. Just how rich are you?
Quote from: alrelax on June 24, 2017, 10:04:05 PMMark, i said it was a story, two guys talking at a casino, a story. What you did with another on this board is your business, his and i might (might) be privy to the details (7 hours), but Mark, i mentioned a story with the owner of The Garden Restaurant. Whatever you want to interpret that as ro for is okay.