Quote from: TheMagician on August 30, 2018, 11:56:58 AM
You give a person with a self-confessed schizophrenia (and in my view serious and clearly visible signs of mano-depressive, bipolar mental issues), enough leeway and opportunities to take apart what you have built, that is what you get.
It is like putting your hand into a hungry tigers mouth, wondering why he doesn't stop, having bitten it off, going for the rest of you...
You are correct, wished I could have said, "See I told you Mark was okay"! But I cannot. And, I am naming him. We had our couple of in's and out's, sure. I wholeheartedly apologized to him and he played me, played me 100% because of the type of person I really am.
He will not be back, period. I 100% banned him. He is on another board and he is self-confessing everything I just said and numerous other things, how he so perfectly played me, us, everyone, etc. He says how he manipulated and used me and this board. But then he turns around and says how honest he is and how loyal and how great of a gambler he is. Including excuses for the numerous thousands of dollars he took and failed to return to another member here.
My point in saying all that is not revenge or feelings! It is that we are all people, with brains, guts, motives and plans we each carry out or not.
You know it is the same as my business I am currently in. I hire people, fire them. Some great employees have personal problems and it also effects their work. Many times I have compromised and listened, understood what they were going through, adjusted and bent rules and regulations within my small company to keep them. Most times, it worked out and benefited my company, myself and the person. Other times it has not. But the good ones have to suffer at times if we are to salvage or rectify the situations involving others that are sometimes within our own ball court. At least IMO.
I go back with Vic here, and I blew up at him in the past. As well as, at Esoito and AD. But you know what, my apologies were truthful, brutally given and I think, pretty much upheld. I can only say, most of us treat others as we want to be treated or at least we put ourselves into the picture as the other person, and maybe that explains why we do what we each do??